How To Get Any Girl Steaming Hot, In MINUTES!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In the last issues, I laid out the basic operating theory of Speed Seduction: that women have internal, subjective "recipes" for love, lust, chemistry, attraction etc that they run on themselves quite outside of their conscious awareness.

I pointed out also a that this "process" produces the "feelings" that they base their actions, decisions and choices on when it comes to us poor horny men!.

Therefore, as smart guys, we are no longer going to be fooled by "dating" thinking or "dating" questions which entirely ignore this vital information about how women get "feelings" and what is really important for us as seducers to think about.

So instead of being what I call A.F.C's(Average Frustrated Chumps) we are going to learn to enter of the world of Speed Seduction® and learn to rapidly trigger these internal feeling recipes that produce these feeling "states" so we can quickly and easily enjoy power, choice and variety with women most guys just have to wish and long for.

The key then is to ask the question: What kind of "states" do I want this woman to experience with me? And how can I trigger these states using my language: the themes I talk about, the stories I tell, the descriptions of my experiences I give, and the questions I ask?

You see, one key secret to getting a woman to undergo all her internal feeling recipes or "states" is..

GET HER TO TALK ABOUT THEM!

Yes, my friends, old Guru Ross clears up another mystery here: by talking about "feelings" women tend to unconsciously trigger their internal feeling "recipes" or processes, which then of course..

Makes the Feelings More Vivid And Real!

For men, talking is mostly about conveying a message or information. It can be the same for women, but much the time, talking is their way of unconsciously triggering these "recipe" programs that run outside of their awareness, so they can..

Enjoy These Intense Feelings Again!

What I am saying here is that there is an actual ongoing brain process where-by the language centers of the brain, when triggered by speech, somehow stimulate or cause her internal feeling recipes or processes for love, lust, attraction (or any other strong feeling state, positive or negative) so that these processes get run again and she can have the "feeling" experience.

Hey..I just explained TWO mysteries: why women are so "into" their "feelings" and why they love to talk so much! Nobel Prize, anybody?

Ok. Let's now give you a peek at some of the actual Speed Seduction® tools you can use over coffee, on a first meeting, or wherever you find yourself talking to a woman.

The first tool I want to introduce you to is conversational set ups and themes.

You see, it usually isn't considered normal or socially acceptable to launch into immediate discussions of have women experience "attraction" "chemistry" "connection" or "lust".

As important as these experiences may be, you need some way of introducing them into conversation so you appear to be a normal, non-threatening guy.

So let me introduce you to some key part of the Speed Seduction framework. In the brief example below we'll talk about conversational set-ups, quotes, embedded commands, priming patterns and trigger questions. Used in combination, these can get a woman to unconsciously run virtually any feeling recipe/state so she has the resulting feelings that will lead to the behaviors you want.

Conversational Set-Ups

Conversational set ups allow you, after just a bit of small talk, to bring up those themes, subjects and topics that are far more likely to trigger these "states" we are after in a woman: deep rapport, comfort, connection, fascination, lust, desire, chemistry etc.

Again, they let you avoid the taboo against discussing such things right off the bat or discussing them directly with someone you just met. And you can't just walk up to a woman and command, "YOU WILL FEEL LUST FOR ME".

A good way to bring up these "heavier" topics is to use a pattern called quotes. Quotes involves simply quoting a conversation or topic that you were having with a friend, or something that you heard in a seminar or read in a magazine or saw on t.v.

Quotes allow you to naturally bring up almost any topic in a non-threatening way. Why? Because you aren't addressing something to her directly. Just quoting what you said or heard said. So it is less threatening.

Also, we tend to use this pattern in language naturally all the time ANYWAY, as in, "Did you hear what Ross said to Rachel on "Friends"? etc etc.etc. The unconscious mind tends to recognize patterns of communication more than it does actual content. So if it feels to the unconscious like a natural pattern of communication(quoting someone else) then the actual content becomes a lot more acceptable.

So let's say you want to trigger that subjective "state" in a woman that involves feeling like there is a wild adventure- a real opportunity she has to act on RIGHT now or she'll lose it forever.

Here's how to use quotes to bring it up, "You know, I was having the most interesting discussion the other night with an old friend I had not seen in years (Conversational set-up, quoting you and your friend)

The next thing we are going to do is use a bit of language I call a "weasel phrase". Weasel phrases just set up the person to make a deep search of their inner experience without making it seem like you are giving a direct command.

You can't directly say, for example, "I command you to go inside your memory and remember what it is like to feel something and then feel that way with me".

Instead, when you use the weasel phrase "have you ever" it is actually a command but it sounds like an innocent question.

For example, if I wrote, "Have you ever read something and it just seemed so fascinating, you realized you want to learn more/"

It's actually a command to go into your memory and recall it, but it is much easier to disguise the command into the form of a question about your experience because that way you don't resist it.

Make sense? Let's continue with our example

"By the way, HAVE YOU EVER just had a friend, and you could just FEEL SO COMFORTABLE…FEEL SO CLOSE embedded commands-giving her commands to feel comfortable and close by bringing up the situation and hiding the commands inside a description of the situation-sneaky, isn't it). You could just FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SAY ANTHING?(another command to feel free to talk).

Notice here we threw in a few suggestions and commands: FEEL SO COMFORTABLE. FEEL SO CLOSE. FEEL LIKE YOU CAN SAY ANYTHING.

We didn't suggest or command directly. We hid them inside that "have you ever" weasel phrase-something that looked a question about her experience but was actually a command to go inside and search her memory.

Sneaky, sneaky, I know. But it works. Onward.

"So we were talking about how sometimes life presents an opportunity..and you realize that if you don't take the opportunity to have an adventure, you'll lose it forever.(focusing in on the topic now)

Ok. Now we are going to use a "pattern" or priming example: this is a description of your experience or someone else's experience. It is designed to "prime the pump" and begin to activate the structures of her brain and mind that produce and run her "recipes" as we discussed in the last newsletter.

"Like for example he was telling me how he had a chance to take a police car for a joy-ride..and how he could just FEEL THIS EXCITEMENT(another command embedded in your story) and it was just like this other part of him came out and he had to take this ride."

Note that little bit about "take this ride"-said with the right tonality it becomes a piece of sexual metaphor. This a way to help guide the "recipe" process towards triggering something that will produce sexual feelings. Note that it is not guaranteed to do this, by itself. It is just priming the pump. A start.

Now we are going to use "have you ever again" again to get her to talking. Why? Because please remember it is by talking women revivify and trigger their most intense and important feeling processes/recipes.

When she talks about her processes and "recipes" and experiences, she can experience the intense feelings we want her to have, and then we can link them to us.

Using "Have You Ever" A Second Time

We've used "have you ever" once to begin to prime her memory. Now we use "have you ever" again but this time it will activate those feeling recipes and processes by getting her to talk about them.:

"So I think because you can learn a lot about a person from that, have you ever had an experience like that..where you just had to go with an adventure that was in your path…take a ride that just seemed so irresistible?"

What have we done here? In just a few minutes we:

1. introduced a topic, guided her memory and imagination for a very important and powerful feeling "recipe" and process

2. gotten her to talk about it to revivify it and make it real again, all in what sounds like an innocent and completely normal conversation.

Not bad at all. Considering you can learn to do this in a 20 minute conversation, and you begin now to see the potential for unleashing your love life!

One more point: when you watch a woman as she describes these experiences, you will see her begin to strongly have these feelings. Often her face will flush, her breathing will get heavier, and she'll get what I call DDBL or the.

Doggie Dinner Bowl Look!

This is an expression similar to the ones my Dalmations I had as a kid would get when I would show them the can of dog food through the window so they knew it was feeding time!

Now, once a woman is experiencing these strong feeling states in your presence, because she's running her internal "feeling recipe" it's really only a short matter of time before you are baking your brownies in her oven(to use a metaphor again!).

Remember: women act on strong feelings. As long as the feelings are there, as the end result of her running her internal "recipes" she will not in any way realize or know how they came about.

She will only feel them, feel happy they are there and feel glad that you will be feeling her in all those ways her nice guy "friends" will never get to.

Ok. I don't want to overwhelm you . The study of using conversational set ups, quotes, priming patterns, embedded commands, command questions and other tools-this study is the core of Speed Seduction. But do go out and try some of this stuff and you'll be shocked to see it works and works amazingly well.

Just remember a key rule: Speed Seducers never communicate just to be flapping your lips. Communicate with an outcome in mind so you can direct and trigger her feeling "recipes" in the direction you want, you the result you want is what you get!

Til next time,

Peace and piece,

Ross

P.S. As I said in a previous issue, this way of speaking may seem strange to you as a guy, and that is a GOOD thing. It's not supposed to be the kind of thing we GUYS respond to. It IS what women love, what triggers their deeper level emotional centers, and what stimulates their fantasies and sexual desires.

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How To Use Easily Use Speed Seduction® Language Anytime Anywhere!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

The other day I received this very good question from a reader who wishes to remain totally anonymous, I'll call him "Anon":


"Ross,

Can Speed Seduction® patterns can be used in school class room where exist lots of students? Because in our place (not United States)girls are much more conservative , if she wants to go out with you to have a cup of coffee , it means maybe you are her good friend or she like you a bit.

So I would like to know if these pattern skills can be used in much more noisy places that include lot of people or even she has a friend sitting aside her ?

(I bought the HSC product 20 days ago)"

RJ here:

First, congrats on your first steps into a whole new way of understanding people, as well as nailing hot women!

Listen: "pattern skills" are about capturing and leading the imagination.

Do people use their imaginations, have their imaginations awakened and led in crowds? In classrooms? With other people? When alone? When walking, sitting, standing?

OF COURSE THEY DO!

Therefore, language (and approaches) that captures and leads the imagination can be used.


......ANY FUGGIN' PLACE YOU FIND YOURSELF, BUCKWHEAT!


Now listen: I am a bit concerned about your question. Here is why.

From the way you put things, you seem to be thinking of patterns as some weird, "outsider" "other" category of communication. Something "alien", from another planet or another world that has to be carefully hidden, like a UFO or a monster, lest people see it unprepared and panic!

Please get this: the language patterns I present in the HSC (and other products) may seem alien, or "foreign" or "dangerous" or "odd" or "weird"..to YOU.

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But to women, they are a perfect match for how they think, ANYWAY.

This kind of language is instantly and UNCONSCIOUSLY
recognized and responded to in a positive fashion by women, because it matches the internal "maps" they have already laid down in the deepest levels of their minds about what turns them on, moves them, excites them.

Do you get it?

You are NOT introducing anything odd or weird or foreign..to THEM.

Remember, language that would revolt, turn off, weird-out and totally creep out us guys, is like HONEY to women.

That's the first thing to get.

Now, get this:

The patterns I present in the courses are only (ONLY)
examples. They are meant to train and teach and familiarize your mind with the kinds of talk that turn women on.

Yes, by themselves, just as written, recited from memory,
they can often be VERY powerful.

But eventually, through using them and UNDERSTANDING HOW AND WHY THEY WORK, I want you to be able to come up with you own, original stuff.

Now, here is the next understanding, based on what I just
said:

****Wherever possible, tailor, modify and adapt your language to the unique situation and the unique audience and environment you have in front of you****

How do you do this?

Well, first of all, you go beyond MEMORIZING. You have to really understand and experience the idea of capturing and leading the imagination and that this happens all the time.

You have to get that the imagination, fantasy, and right brain visualizing and emotion controls MUCH more of human behavior than you ever first realized, especially with women.

You have to experience how words can paint vivid mental images and create strong flows of feeling.

You have to understand(UNDERSTAND!!!!) how vague language and descriptive language can create huge flows of positive emotion and trigger mental images.

Once you really understand, then you can go to modifying
what you say to fit your audience and the environment.

You can match your language to:

*Something going on in the physical environment.

*Something going on in the emotional environment

*Something your audience is DOING

*Something your audience is OBSERVING

(It doesn't' matter whether you audience is one woman or 2 dozen women. These principles work regardless and irrespective of numbers).

Another principle is: observe who is most responsive to your words.

Example: let's say you are at a poetry reading and you are going to get up on stage and read some steamy seduction poems, like my "Fascination" poem which is actually in the BHSC.

What you want to do is SLOWLY read the poem, pausing as you go and make eye contact with the audience. Watch to see which women are most strongly responding: who is getting all "doggy dinner bowl", with wide open eyes, lips parted, breathing heavy, even nipples erect.

THOSE are the girls you will want to talk to, afterwards.

Whenever I am in a group of women, I always watch to see who is most responsive. Those are the ones I will zero in on for more attention.

Ok. Good questions. I hope the answers get you started.

RJ

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How To Talk Women Into Your Bed: Part II

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

In the last issue, I introduced some of the core concepts for getting really good at seducing hot women, even when you don't have looks, social status or money.

Just to review, I taught you:

1. Focus on her feelings first. Get your mind off the behaviors you want from her(sex, undying loyalty, threesomes, etc) and put your mind and focus on what feeling states she would have to be in, in order to want to naturally give you those behaviors.

2. Realize that the key to her feelings is her imagination. Capture and lead her imagination and you can generate the intense feelings and emotions she craves.

3. The key to capturing her imagination AND emotions is how you use your language. Remember the example from last issue of romance novels; they out do every other form of fiction combined, because they appeal to women's fantasies, imagination and emotions, even though we, as guys, would never read such stuff.

The Mystery Of Women's "Feelings" Explained

In order to understand just how to tap into the deep feelings that women crave, like "chemistry", attraction, desire, fascination, incredible connection I need to make the briefest of detours into a discipline called Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP. Please, please bear with me, because the next couple of paragraphs will allow you to enjoy a profound understanding of how women "tick" that will skyrocket your success with them more a new Porsche, perfect pecs, or high status and fame.

The Concept of States And " Emotional Recipes"

One of the core ideas of NLP is that people don't just mysteriously "get" feelings. Feelings and emotions are the end result of a process that people run on the inside of themselves, involving what they say to themselves, how they picture things in their minds, and what flows of internal physical sensations they experience inside their bodies.

Now, bear with me here, because this is both simple AND important. Think of a woman you really, REALLY want to be with.

Wouldn't you like her to experience the following emotional "states" with you?

*Chemistry
*Fascination
*Connection
*Desire

You would agree that those would be great for starters, yes? That, given THOSE feelings, she would be far more likely to say, "JUMP ME NOW" instead of "Let's just be friends!"

By the way, if the only thing you hear from women is "Let's just be friends" it is because the only feeling states she experiences around you are casual enjoyment and comfort. Not enough to get her doing the grown up!)

Are you following along so far?

Ok. For this lovely lady to experience these intense, positive feeling states with you, she has to run some kind of internal process or "recipe" to get the end result of wanting you.

An Example To Help Understand And A Half Truth Corrected And Explained

As an example, a woman might first look at you and get a bit of a tingle in her tummy. Then she might picture you and her naked. Then she might say to herself "yummm". Then perhaps she might feel tightness in her throat, her nipples hardening, and the tingles going down to her crotch. She might picture the two of you meeting her friends and feeling a sense of pride.

The key is this: this will all flash through her body and mind in seconds, so fast in fact, that she will almost always something she is NOT consciously aware of doing.

Now, you may have heard it said that women will decide in the first ten seconds if they are going to sleep with a guy.

This is almost always NOT true. What is true is that when women DO decide to sleep with you,(whether it's ten minutes or ten months into knowing you) they will run that process of deciding through their body and mind in LESS than ten seconds.

Ok. I think I've piled enough on you for now. But I want you to really re-read this newsletter another time. Maybe print it out and take it with you for a long walk, and think about the implications and how it begins to make sense of a very important piece of your life. Remember the more we can "de-mystify" women's emotions and make them something we can bring to the surface and LINK to us, the more power, choice, and enjoyment with women we are going to have; women most guys just get to dream about.

In the next issue we'll get into the nuts and bolts of how to actually start using your language to do this.

Until then,

P e a c e a n d p i e c e ,

R o s s

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How To Talk Women Into Your Bed: Part I

Wednesday 3:45 PM

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A common question I am asked is: How can I get women hot by how I talk to them? How can I use my words to create attraction in women, without having to rely on my looks or social standing or money?

Well, as the 18th century French Philosopher, Voltaire said: "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France". (By the way, Voltaire was a good pal of Ben Franklin, one of America's founding fathers and together they seduced hundreds of hot women. And they were doing this well into their 80's)

Now I'm sure you have probably known a guy who wasn't good looking, didn't have money, but somehow he just knew what to say to women to make them eager to "jack his beanstalk", "ride his baloney pony" and "do the grown up".

In short, he had lots of women, while better-looking guys had few or none. The reality is that men have been "sweet-talking" women out of their panties (or bloomers or whatever) since recorded history began.

It's just with Speed Seduction we are going to make it a lot more precise for you by introducing you to the concept of "recipes" or "states".

You see, one key shift in understanding how to get what you want with the women you want is:

STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT WOMEN TO DO WITH YOU!

Now, I know this may seem like a key paradox. After all, isn't this all about getting very hot women to do what we want-sleep with us, give us great sex, worship the ground we slink across, etc?

Yes, of course it is. But the key here is, GO FOR HER FEELINGS FIRST!

If you can create the intense, passionate feelings in women that they dream about then THE BEHAVIORS THAT FLOW FROM THOSE FEELINGS: HAVING GREAT SEX, PLEASING YOU, AND ANY KINKY STUFF YOU LIKE WILL COME NATRUALLY AND EASILY.

So the real question is: how can we awaken the feelings and emotional states that give us this kind of "leverage" with women?

The key is to capture and lead her imagination.

Just remember this rule: her imagination is the key to her emotions. Her emotions are the key to her bedroom door!

I don't care how hot she is. I don't care if she is a "10" on the looks scale and YOU are a "two". If you can capture her imagination, then you can capture her emotions.

Capture her emotions and you tap into the deep cultural and social conditioning that teaches women from the time they can first speak that following their emotions is the key to being a woman.

Now, the good news is, you can do this in a way that truly fulfills her and leaves her feeling wonderful, so BOTH of you win.

The next issue of this newsletter will begin the process of teaching you how. For now, bear this in mind:

Every year, romance novels outsell every other form of fiction combined, not just in the United States, but the ENTIRE Western world.

Tom Clancy, John LeCarre, Stephen King and any of your other favorite authors combined can't even make even a small dent in the sales of books that you and I as men would RIGHTLY consider trash!

Yet women of all ages read these things.

Why? Simply because they want their imagination and emotions stimulated and women do this through words; the words they speak, the words they hear, and in this case the words they read.

You may not have an ugly face to talk away. You may not want to "bed the Queen of France." But to be the king of the bedroom, you have to learn to structure your communication in ways most guys will never even begin to consider or understand.

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In our next issue, we'll talk about the all important ideas of emotional "recipes" and "states" and how this will allow you to jump from chump to seduction super-star.

Until then,



Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries



P.S. I don't care by the way if you want lots of ladies or just one special girl for a long-term relationship.

Unless you can learn to trigger her "attraction" and "chemistry" states, you won't get a one-night stand or a "real-hate-shun-ship". You will merely hear that age-old curse, "Let's just be friend". YUCCH! I wouldn't wish that on a Washington bureaucrat or the kids in high school who used to beat me silly!

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Affirmations: How to do them for REAL.

A client called the other day. He was in an accident with a four wheeler (ATV) and broke his back. After two disc were removed and his spine rebuilt, he spends some 20 hours a day sitting or laying down. He has the SS course and was studying the affirmations. He called to say that the affirmations were not working for him because he did not believe them. In particular, “I am the best thing that could happen to a woman”.

His problem wasn’t the affirmations and we will get back to them absolutely. He did not believe them because he was broken and he thought “no woman would not want to be with a broken man”. He was projecting his beliefs on to any and every woman. When I pointed this out, you could immediately here a change in him. There are lots of women who are attracted to men who need help, assistance, nursing. Remember, mothering is a natural instinct of women. I told him to stop acting sorry for himself. He also thought that any woman who was attracted would just be giving him a mercy fuck.

Now back to affirmations. I give an example of in seminars. It goes as follows. Imagine yourself standing in front of a mirror and saying, “I am the world’s greatest tennis player”. If you have a mirror, go do it. What happens? What does that little voice in the back of your head say? “Like hell”, “Are you kidding”, “No Way”.

Now, while still standing in front of that mirror say, “You will acquire the foot speed and hand-eye coordination to become a first class tennis player”. Listen for the little voice in the back of you head. What does it say?

Three things about affirmations to get the results you want.

First, they must be worded so that you believe them.

Second, address your subconscious mind with YOU.

Third, incorporate an NLP process, i.e., give the subconscious a direction, a way, a process to execute. The subconscious will relentlessly process the instruction to achieve the result.

Your Guide to the Future

Dr YJC

A Belief does Not require something to be True.

A belief does not require something to be true. A belief only requires us to believe that something is true. Which means that most of what reality is to each of us is based on what we have come to believe – whether it’s true or not is really our own opinion. The belief that we have about anything is so powerful that it can even make something appear to be something completely and totally different than it really is.

Anything worth doing is worth doing.

Comparison and Contrast

Anything worth doing is worth doing (Badly or Right). If at first you don’t succeed then (Quit or try, try again).

There is no TRY. There is only DO.

If at first you don’t succeed then look at what you did and DO something different next time.

I am responsible for my own outcomes.

Comparison and Contrast

Others are responsible for my good and bad fortune. I am simply a victim of circumstances. (Bad or Good)

Work is a magnificent adventure.

Comparison and Contrast

Work is something we must tolerate until vacation. A job is something you must do to pay the bills. Or as one person put it once, JOB is Just Over Broke

In every adversity are hidden seeds of victory / opportunity.

Comparison and Contrast

Adversity is nature’s signal that you are about to lose.

Things don’t get better by accident; things get better by appropriate action.

Comparison and Contrast

You are either lucky or you are not lucky. Some are born with it and some are not born with it.

Luck is when preparation meets opportunity. Are you prepared and looking for opportunity?

If I give others what they want and need, then they will give me what I want 3 and need, or “As ye sow so shall ye reap,” or “What goes around comes around.”

Comparison and Contrast

Only when somebody starts giving me what I want and need will I help them too.

The Universe Will Provide

Commitment is the key to excellence

Comparison and Contrast

Commitment limits me too much.

The MORE committed you are the more GOOD things seem.

The LESS committed you are to something the MORE difficult things seem.

Dr YJC

Powerful Words of Wisdom

Scott Bolan Speaks:

Some of these will upset some of you. But those who know, will see. And seeing, will conquer!

• Your emotional response transfers control to your agitator.

• Beware of the vote that appeals to emotion.

• Adam did not lead, he followed. And he lost paradise.

• Life is made of Energy. The wise protect it and cultivate it.

• Energy is primarily leaked through thought and speaking.

• Only when we leave the Mechanical, can we begin to enter the Spiritual

• Awareness exists outside of the mechanical

• Turn off the chatterbox of your mind, then you can expand your peripheral vision and "see" the attacker before he even makes a move! The same goes with opportunities...

• Never Emotionally Invest in the Prideful Greedy Jealous or Self-Righteous, they will take you for granted and blame you if they fail.

• Never say what you don't want to happen, for example "I'm worried that you'll steal my idea." By saying so, you may be planting the seed of thought in their minds for them to steal your idea, whereas they may have never thought of it had you not mentioned it.
• Speak Powerfully, not timidly. Say what you mean with no doubt fear worry or hesitation.

• Think Powerfully! When you are thinking fearfully timidly or delusional, say out loud "stop! think Powerfully!"

• No negative friends.

• Character is the basis for relationship. Not religion, race or creed. The question is: what is their character? After establishing that, Intelligence is the basis for continued relationship! The question is: are they intelligent?

• When the attacker trying to kill you is so strong and big they seem impossible to hurt? Target "BENT!" Balls Eyes Nose Throat - at least one of these is fragile on any person. I have seen men kicked in the balls full-force and not appear hurt. I've seen a nose smashed and the guy kept on fighting powerfully. Yet likewise I have seen men stopped cold by them. Target all four and you'll get the right one!

• Arguing common sense is a fool's errand

• Think "Business," not "Job." This is vital!

• Eat Protein before and during Traveling, it burns slower so you get hungry less and eat less

• If you find yourself captivated by sensuality - such as a sex scene in a movie - ask yourself, "am I Pavlov's dog?" YOU should chose when you are stimulated, or would you rather leave that to Pavlov?

• The basis of freedom is choice. If you cannot control your response to a stimulus, you are little more than a dog (if this makes you mad, you are welcome to never come back to this blog - say Hi to Pavlov!)

• You are either the Director, or the "directed."

• It is lonely at the top. People react to the success of others like LSD - they trip out and hallucinate! So don't worry about everybody liking you. Just go for your dream and better friends will find you.

• Studying the Ancient Wisdom of the Saints, Sadhus, Samurai, Ninja and others is useful empowering and enlightening. Why are some people afraid of this information?

• The triceps is the power behind the punch (not the bicep, although it looks good!)

• Practice complete silence of environment and mind for 10 minutes a day and your success will multiply!

• Where are you weak? On the ground? Kicking? Wherever it is, start sparring there! Yep.

• There's always someone who can beat you. That's okay. You can still make them pay VERY dearly for the privilege, and they may be wise enough to realize it's not worth it to beat you.

• When you are attacked, do not try to avoid being hurt. It is a sure way to defeat.

• Respect the privacy of others, and honor everyone

• Reciprocate invitations - if they invited you over, invite them over next time. You'd be surprised how many forget this and wonder why they never heard from so-and-so again.

• Whatever you do, make sure you enjoy doing it. Fun is a HUGE key to success.

• The moment a Saint becomes aware of himself, sainthood is lost (read that again)

• Money is necessary. Have a good sum of it. But if that is what is most important to you, you have lived in illusion.

• You're losing your teen because you outsourced their training and development. Why did you have him or her in the first place? For your portfolio? Time spent together consistently away from electronic stimulus is the cure for this. Start now.

• If she feels empowered by getting attention for her sexiness, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.

• If he feels empowered by impressing your female friends, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.

• Randomness in your actions is good training - stand in a corner, facing a wall stand 2 inches from it, do a shoulder roll in the hallway, you're all dressed up in your shirt and tie? Go hit the bags. Practice your kicks while filling the tank. Bust out in song in public (I have scored BIG with this one!)

• Bring your awareness to how you walk. Notice it? Good. Now straighten up and bring to every movement THE POWER OF INTENTION AND PURPOSE.

• It's easy to see the thoughts of others and sense their energy when you look at them through a NON-ATTACHED MIND!

• When you are attached to your desires, you put out a "pushing-away" energy.

• When you are attached to you own desires and conclusions, you see people and circumstances as YOU are (This is what is meant by the term “perception is projection”). By being non-attached, you can see how they REALLY are (this is called "awareness")

• Lose out in the market? Blow a big deal? Lose a ton of money? Good. Welcome to life. Now go out there and kick some ass! Or would you rather sit around and whine? Or would you rather sit around and be afraid?

• Shed the emotional attachment to the past, it's like an addiction to prescription drugs - it's effecting your clear judgment and hindering your advancement. Flush the pills! Clear the slate and go out there and kick some ass.

• Look them in the eye and tell the truth

• You allowed yourself to be put in a box - democrat, republican, religious, atheist, etc. How much can one see from the inside of a box?

• At every moment, these questions define you: Is that who you are? Is that what you're really about?

• Your Intuition and your Conscience are your most valuable assets

• Be Still and Know (the opposite is also true: Be un-still and you'll be ignorant!)

• There are teachers, fighters and technicians. Rare is one who is all three, or even a combination of the two.

• The envious will try to make you feel guilty if you make money. It is they who are fixated on money.

• Genuine Modesty is priceless. False Modesty is worthless.

• Fear will always remain when you are attached to the outcome.

• "The Busy Mind" is a state of perpetual hypnosis. Read it again. You can wake up now. Welcome back!

• Secure your home. Now.

• Lay down the rules right at the start. If you neglected to do this, lay them down right now before proceeding forward.

• Stepford wives, Stepford people. They are shallow and should be avoided.

• It's easy to see the thoughts of others, it is a matter of letting it be seen.

• Run out ahead of them and beat them to the punch!

• Cause or Effect. Which side are you on?

• Design or Default. Which are you living by?

• When the actor has mastered the material, he is off-script. The best singers don't read from a sheet. The spaceship sheds it's fuel tanks when it passes through the atmosphere. Books and learnings are like this.

• Do not dress loudly.

• Do not look to the Government as your provider. It is at best the school-yard referee.

• Do not be moved by praise (temptation), or by persecution (criticism).

• Order is Heaven's First Law. Put it in your life now and keep it there.

• Doubts are Decisions.

• Emotion is like a yellow-belt. It has it's basic use. But how long can you hold up a sign before your arms weary?

• Do not let the culture define you. Define yourself.

To Your Success,
Scott Bolan